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Welcome Tangle Readers!
Well, this is a new experience for me. Today, an article I wrote was published in the politics newsletter Tangle. Here’s how Tangle describes themselves: Political news is broken. We’re fixing it. We’re a non-partisan politics newsletter that gives you a 360-degree view on the news. No spin. No clickbait. Opinions from the left, right,…
A Note on the Costs of Self-Hatred
This post is about empathy. I’ve been told not to share it. That the person at the center of it is not sympathetic enough. That people will dislike it, or react badly; one person I shared the post with could not bring himself to agree with me. Empathy, though, is important. It’s especially important for…
An obituary for a gay man
I don’t think of myself as gay. This comes as a surprise to friends who know my attractions, since I am, after all, male and attracted to males. One friend even asked if my reluctance to call myself gay could stem from homophobia! But it’s not that at all. You see, I don’t feel like…
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